Finding Your Rhythm In Jesus

A lifestyle magazine recently published a Q&A session that explored a day in the life of a successful mommy blogger. Readers gathered tips on how she tackles homework, runs a business, fits in workouts, preps for meals, and romances her husband (Tuesday nights, 9:30 sharp!), doing all-the-things without ever skipping a beat, coming up for air, or losing control.

But when the magazine asked, “What is your one weakness?” she said, “I lack warmth. Friends and family say I’m distant.” How could this be? Here she keeps her life humming like a well-oiled machine, yet struggles to maintain healthy rhythms and meaningful connections.

Jesus understands more than anybody how quickly our efficiently-run lives—no matter how heroic, noble, and virtuous—can rob us of the one thing our soul craves: intimacy with others, but more importantly, intimacy with Him.

Yes in Mark 6:30-31, the apostles excitedly gathered around Jesus to fill Him in on all they’ve accomplished. Incredible things too, like healing sick people and casting out demons. And instead of replying, “Well done! Do more! Start again!” Jesus said, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place . . .”

You see, Jesus was far more interested in redirecting their focus on Him, not on the day’s successes. He was far more concerned about setting into motion rhythms of intimacy with Him, affection for Him, total dependence on Him, and restoration only found in Him—not on what they could do for Him.

So as summer turns into fall and our Anchored Press Devotional Planners overflow with appointments and activities, let’s pause at the turn of each page and be women who fall into a daily rhythm of warming ourselves in the presence of Jesus. Then we’ll reflect His heart more effectively to the world around us and hear Him say, “Blessed are those who listen to me, watching daily at my doors, waiting at my doorway” (Proverbs 8:34).

What will your rhythm look like this season?

Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.
MARK 6:31B NIV

Making Time with God Doable in the Midst of Summer

We love summertime around here! Our schedules become less regimented, sleeping-in becomes a thing again (well, let’s be honest, for the kiddos!), and the sun is always shining! Our days get longer—days that show the glory of a God who is light, and in Him is no darkness at all.

But summer’s less-structured vibe often gets paired with less-structured quiet times, where our carefree moments in the sun turn into fewer moments in the Son and in His Word. Could this be a nudge from God to switch things up? Just as He orchestrates the changing of the seasons, perhaps He also enjoys seeing change in the way we approach our time with Him. Let’s dive into some new ways we can make time with God doable in the midst of all the sun and fun!

Moments with God on vacation. Nothing renews our perspective and awakens our sense of self—more importantly, our sense of God—like a change of scenery. Romans 1:20 NLT says, “For ever since the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky. Through everything God made, they can clearly see his invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse for not knowing God.”

So whether you have your toes in the sand at the beach, you’re in a canoe rowing across a crystal clear lake, or exploring a culturally-diverse city filled with all things new, may it all point to God. And may these extra still moments be an opportunity to open your Bible moving you toward knowing Him more deeply—right we you are.

Moments with God at home. During the school year, we often commit to Bible studies that send us deep into Scripture, exploring Old Testament prophecies or what it means to be a disciple of Jesus. So what better time than summer to sit on the patio (or crank-up the air indoors) with our old marked-up, tear-stained study books in hand, reviewing all that God had taught us in the previous season?

You can also soak in your Anchored Press planner! Not only does it keep you plugged-in on the daily, but Summer is a great time to meander through its pages—January through May—reflecting on the Scriptures you’ve highlighted, prayers you’ve jotted down, and devotions you’ve underlined thus far. And as you reflect on God’s mighty works and wonderful deeds, you’ll be moved to worship Him deeply.

Moments with God with friends. Make time with God a priority this Summer with a little help from your friends. Commit daily to texting each other Bible verses you’ve memorized over the years or from your daily or weekly Anchored Press Devotional Planner. Reading Scripture texts that pop-up throughout the day will keep you connected to the body of Christ and lead you to Jesus in the most unlikely of places: at the pool with the kids, at the dentist getting caught-up on cleanings, or at an amusement park in line for the ferris wheel.

Wherever your summer schedule (or lack thereof) leads you, let it draw you closer—not away from—Jesus. Don’t wait until Fall to fall back into a quiet time routine. And don’t let spontaneous trips for ice cream or a trip to the beach to catch the sunset keep you from connecting with your Savior. Instead, meet with Him in those very places and embrace the unique change summer brings to your quiet times with Him, for there isn’t a single spot on earth He hasn’t already gone before—and not a single spot He isn’t right behind. (Psalm 139:5)

Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the kingdom of their Father. Whoever has ears, let them hear.
MATTHEW 13:43

HOW TO GET DINNER ON THE TABLE

PHOTO CREDIT: SERENA & LILY

It’s currently 4 o’clock as I sit down to write this blog post and in the back of my mind I’m thinking, “I’ve got to bust this out so I can get dinner on the table!” I’m sure you can relate. It’s the burning 4 o’clock question you get from either your spouse or your kiddos, “What’s for dinner?” and the reason that exact question made it into the planner everyday . . . so we wouldn’t cringe when they asked, but rather had an answer. But how does one make it happen at least 5 out of 7 days? Below are a few pointers and a few yummy recipes to help you pull it off each week.

The obvious-meal plan. Try to make it a habit to sit down at the same time each week and plan your meals. I even take it one step further and grocery shop at the same time each week. I love Trader Joe’s on a Monday morning at 8am . . . right after school drop off and when they open and are fully stocked, it helps get me in and out, ready to conquer the week!

Prep. Ok, the obvious time to prep before your week starts is Sunday. But let’s keep it real here. While Sunday is the Sabbath, it’s also the year 2018 and (unfortunately!) other things are happening on Sundays . . . like sports! (Ugh! It’s a big hot button with me when I get our volleyball schedule and half of the tournaments land on Sunday . . . I often wonder if that’s why God has us at a church where Saturday evening is an option! No excuses for us!). Ok, back to prep. If you’d rather be hanging with your family on Sunday and not in the kitchen, make it happen another day. Maybe it’s your Monday morning or evening thing. Who says it has to happen on Sunday? Just do the prep so you take the guesswork out of weekday cooking.

Look at your schedule and plan accordingly. For example, our daughter has volleyball practice 3 nights a week, which means she needs to eat right at 5 (God forbid she gets a side-ache! :-). Seeing that our afternoons are packed with work and other activities, we need easy meals those nights. There is always a Crockpot meal one night a week as well as meals that take little to no prep (I gave you a few of those recipes below!).

Leftovers. Incorporating at least one night of leftovers can help you get dinner on the table each night. This doesn’t mean you are having the same meal two nights in a row. You are just re-creating an ingredient. An example of this is when I make chicken taco meat in the Crockpot one night (that is a bag of Organic frozen chicken breasts and a jar of salsa verde from Trader Joe’s, on low for 8 hours. Easy). The first night we will make tacos, but then the second night the chicken might complete a taco salad, taco soup or an easy chicken enchilada recipe (recipes below). Or maybe you are grilling steak. Grill extra and make a yummy steak salad or steak fajitas the next night.

*These yummy enchiladas are great with leftover Crockpot Chicken Tacos (recipe above). We unfortunately can’t have them anymore since we aren't doing gluten or dairy, but they used to be a leftover staple in our house. Instead we like to use our chicken in this amazing Taco Soup from SkinnyTaste.

Accountability! Another way to insure you are getting dinner on your table is by joining an online Facebook group or challenge. This is so easy to do through social media. There are thousands of choices but my very favorite is through the Cara Clark Nutrition community. Her challenges are super doable (yet challenging! As she says, if it’s not challenging, it’s not going to be effective!). But what I love most about her challenges are they keep our family’s eating on track. Right when I’m about to get bored of our go-to meals, it’s time for the next challenge and new recipes. Her “Spring into Summer” Challenge started on April 7th . . . but it’s never to late to join! And she even shared one of her favorite recipes with all of you below. 

One Pan Wonder Taco Bowls
Serves 2

2 teaspoons avocado oil
1 teaspoon crushed garlic
8 ounces shrimp or chopped chicken *vegetarian: omit meat
½ cup black beans
1 cup sliced bell peppers (red, yellow, orange and green)
¼ cup sliced onion (or more if you prefer)
2 Tablespoons taco seasoning (be sure you’re choosing a clean version)
Salt and pepper, to taste
1 cup rice (brown, wild or jasmine)
Handful of chopped spinach
¼ avocado sliced
Optional toppings: clean salsa, cilantro, chopped tomatoes

In a pan, sauté oil and garlic for 2 minutes.  Add chicken/shrimp, beans, peppers, onion, seasonings, salt and pepper.  Cover and cook for 10 minutes. Check to see that meat is cooked thoroughly. Serve over prepared rice, handful of spinach, avocado and your choice of optional toppings.

I made these bowls and they were so good. We did make ours vegetarian so we added kidney beans to the recipe and more avocado and I used my favorite clean seasoning (2T cumin, 1t paprika, 1/2t cayenne pepper, 1/2t onion powder, 1/2t garlic powder, 1/4t black pepper).

We hope that these tips allow you to create more margin in your life so you have time for what really matters; like getting dinner on the table more often and reaping the reward of extra family time each week. We'd love to know some of your favorite mid-week recipes . . . just leave them below!

So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do,
do it all for the glory of God.
1 CORINTHIANS 10:31